"Do not be afraid, for I am with you. I will bring your children from the east and gather you from the west." Isaiah 43:5



Friday, February 8, 2008

PINK

As I was driving to Costco today, I was telling my son that some people talk about buying clothes for their children, while they are waiting for a referral. They suggest buying for the upper end of their request.

I told him that that was pretty impossible for me, since our age request goes from 0-48 months and 0-7 years. That would mean I would have the joy of buying for what? a 4 year old and 7 year old. What if we got referred the bottom end? So that wouldn't do - too bad. No buying cute clothes.

A little later, I was at Costco and of course one of the first places I look are the books and dvds. I like to get classic dvds for the boys. I lucked out and found a classic box of dvds including: Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, Cheaper By The Dozen, Dr. Dolittle, My Friend Flicka, Those Magnificent Men and Their Flying Machines and more.

It is so much fun having a large family. When I first starting copying movies on the vcr for the boys sixteen years ago, I had no idea we would still be adding children nearly 20 years later!! What a blessing!! So it is FUN when I get to start a new library in a new era - no more tapes - dvds now!

Anyhow, after I found the boys ones, I saw this pink box of dvd's and as I saw it was my old favourite Shirley Temple, my brain went "PINK!" "GIRL!" "I can buy that!!! "




I grabbed it and was thrilled to get it!! I would have bought this years ago, but knew that it wouldn't last with boys. They just wouldn't get a thrill out of it.

The ironic thing was the thought that followed. While I was thrilled to bits to have a pretty pink box of videos for my girls (something that they couldn't grow out of before they arrived), I suddenly had a sobering thought. Having birthed six caucasion children this thought has never crossed my mind before. It did today.

Would my little girls like a box of videos about a cute little white girl? Would they wonder why there were no little girls that look like them? I am not sure. But it kind of made me think.

2 comments:

Danielle said...

I think your girls are going to love Shirley Temple! I mean, yes, you are probably going to want to find lots of multicultural things to watch, but sharing something with your girls that you enjoyed when you are younger always feels great.

YAY for PINK! :-)

Anonymous said...

Books, movies, towels, blankets, cups, toys are the things I have found you can buy without knowing the exact ages and can have a lot of fun doing it! I think those movies are great because they meant something to you as a child and are something you can share with your daughters. I don't think it is a bad thing that the little girl is blond-blue-eyed as long as you bablance it. I love the movies "Ruby Bridges" and "Selma, Lord Selma" both by Disney. You could even get them now and watch them with your boys. It is Black American History which is different than Black Canadian History but it is still relevant in my opinion and really opens the door to talk about racism and also talk about the strength of the human spirit and the importance of faith.